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홍차넷
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Warning: Use of undefined constant r - assumed 'r' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/outlogin_toby.php on line 47
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Name | [익명] |
| Subject | 초등학생인 조카관련.. |
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안녕하세요. 매우 개인적이고 약간은 민감한 소재라 판단되어 익명으로 올립니다. 저와 남동생 모두 결혼했으며 저흰 자녀가 없고 동생부부는 초등학교 고학년이 된 조카(여아)가 하나 있습니다. 동생은 전문직 제수씨는 초등학교 교사이며 3자입장에서 봐도 특별히 모난곳 없는 부부에요. 그리고 조카가 집안의 하나밖에없는 손녀딸이라 아버지 어머니도 매우 각별하게 생각하는 편이라 볼수있죠. 근데 이 조카때문에 저희 부부 특히 와이프가 스트레스를 호소하는 입장이라 다른 분들 생각도 들어보고자 합니다. 거슬러 올라가 조카가 3-4살 말문이 트일때부터 지금까지 인사를 하지 않았고 제멋대로 하는 경향이 좀 있었습니다. 할머니 할아버지야 뭐 머리에 똥을 싸도 예뻣을거고 저도 피붙이고 그냥 귀엽기만해서 특별한 입장은 없었는데 와이프가 보이는게 있었던지 '애가 나이에 비해 눈치가 빠르고 약았다' 자기가 뭘해도 제지할 사람이 없는걸 잘 알기 때문에 일가가 모인자리에선 너무 버릇이 없어서 몇번 눈으로 신호를 줬는데 바로 자지러지더랍니다. 그리고 인사를 하도 안해서 저희 부부가 먼저 나갈때 주변에서 아이에게 큰어머니한테 인사하라고 하는걸 와이프가 일부로 자리 안비키고 지켜봤는데 역시나 바로 자지러지더군요. 와이프가 둔감한 저와는 다르게 상당히 예민한 스타일이라 그런거 하나하나에 스트레스를 받더군요. 저는 아직 너무 어리니 좀더 지켜보자는 취지로 말했고 가급적이면 같이 모이는 횟수를 줄였습니다. 그래서 지금은 1년에 딱4번(부모님 생신,명절)만 다같이 모입니다. 그리고 올해 구정에가서 저도 생각이 바뀐게 새배를 해야하는 타이밍인데 갑자기 새뱃돈을 준다고 해야 새배를 한다는군요. 순간 귀를 의심했고 일부로 아무말 안해 봤습니다. 그러니 그냥 드러누워서 티비보더군요. 이때 저도 이건 잘못됬다라는 생각이 들었습니다. 와이프도 이모습을 지켜봤고 좀있다 저희먼저 처갓집으로 이동하려고 나서는데 주변에서 아무리 인사하라고 해도 요지부동이더군요. 이동하면서 와이프와 많은 대화를나눴는데. 1. 우리가 간섭할 일은 아니며 할수 있는 일도 없다. 2. 동생네 부부의 가정교육 문제도 아닌거 같다. 3. 똑똑하지만 사람 안될거 같다. 이정도로 정리가 됬고 1번 관련해서 제가 동생 잡아다 한번 이야기 해보려고 했는데 와이프가 극구 말려서 일절 관여 안하기로 했습니다. 이렇게 말했지만 피붙이인 초등학생 조카에게 40먹고 이런생각하고 있는 큰아버지입장에서 자괴감이 느껴지네요. 관계를 개선해보고자 할 생각은 없습니다. 어짜피 좀 더 크면 저희와 마주칠 일도 없을거라 그럴 필요가 있는 관계도 아니라 생각하구요. 여러분들 의견은 어떠신가요. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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131632 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
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131632'> Groot
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23/01/25 17:29
131632>삭제 주소복사
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친동생이라도 어차피 '남의 자식' 입니다.
동생부부가 잘못키워서 저꼬라지난건데
형 입장에서는 애가 탈 수 있겠지만 뭐 어쩌겠읍니까;;
옛날처럼 '어디 건방지게 어른앞에서 드러누워?' 하면서 싸다구 날리거나
날잡고 먼지나게 줘 팰수도 없잖아요??
보아하니 부모말도 잘 안들을거 같은데,
다른사람이 말해도 소귀에 경읽기가 될 가능성이 매우 크읍니다.
괜히 스트레스 받지 마시고
걍 쟤는 태생이 저런갑다.
어려서 그런갑다.
하면서 쉬쉬해주십시오.
남 앞에서 사고를 치든 무례를 저지르든 ... 더 보기
동생부부가 잘못키워서 저꼬라지난건데
형 입장에서는 애가 탈 수 있겠지만 뭐 어쩌겠읍니까;;
옛날처럼 '어디 건방지게 어른앞에서 드러누워?' 하면서 싸다구 날리거나
날잡고 먼지나게 줘 팰수도 없잖아요??
보아하니 부모말도 잘 안들을거 같은데,
다른사람이 말해도 소귀에 경읽기가 될 가능성이 매우 크읍니다.
괜히 스트레스 받지 마시고
걍 쟤는 태생이 저런갑다.
어려서 그런갑다.
하면서 쉬쉬해주십시오.
남 앞에서 사고를 치든 무례를 저지르든 ... 더 보기
친동생이라도 어차피 '남의 자식' 입니다.
동생부부가 잘못키워서 저꼬라지난건데
형 입장에서는 애가 탈 수 있겠지만 뭐 어쩌겠읍니까;;
옛날처럼 '어디 건방지게 어른앞에서 드러누워?' 하면서 싸다구 날리거나
날잡고 먼지나게 줘 팰수도 없잖아요??
보아하니 부모말도 잘 안들을거 같은데,
다른사람이 말해도 소귀에 경읽기가 될 가능성이 매우 크읍니다.
괜히 스트레스 받지 마시고
걍 쟤는 태생이 저런갑다.
어려서 그런갑다.
하면서 쉬쉬해주십시오.
남 앞에서 사고를 치든 무례를 저지르든
책임은 오롯이 조카와 동생부부 몫이니까요
동생부부가 잘못키워서 저꼬라지난건데
형 입장에서는 애가 탈 수 있겠지만 뭐 어쩌겠읍니까;;
옛날처럼 '어디 건방지게 어른앞에서 드러누워?' 하면서 싸다구 날리거나
날잡고 먼지나게 줘 팰수도 없잖아요??
보아하니 부모말도 잘 안들을거 같은데,
다른사람이 말해도 소귀에 경읽기가 될 가능성이 매우 크읍니다.
괜히 스트레스 받지 마시고
걍 쟤는 태생이 저런갑다.
어려서 그런갑다.
하면서 쉬쉬해주십시오.
남 앞에서 사고를 치든 무례를 저지르든
책임은 오롯이 조카와 동생부부 몫이니까요
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