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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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Warning: Use of undefined constant use_category - assumed 'use_category' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/include/print_category.php on line 9
전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Date |
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| Name | [익명] |
| Subject | 친구 없는 성격이 고민입니다. |
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친구 없이 잘 지내왔는데 친구가 필요한지 고민입니다. 성격이 내성적인 성격은 아닙니다. MBTI할 때마다 외향적이라고 나오고요. (ENTJ) 대학 다니면서 외향적이어야하는 기업 서포터즈 활동이나 이런 저런 활동도 잘 했구요. 의리 없는 성격도 아닙니다. 다만 무례한 행동, 남 얘기하는 거 싫어하고, 수능 끝나고부터 생활비 벌어 써서 돈 나가는 행동을 잘 안 합니다. 무례하거나 이해타산적인, 계산적인 행동을 하는 사람들을 보면 거리를 두게 됩니다. 사람 만나려면 식사도 하고 술도 먹고 피시방을 가거나 그래야하는데 돈을 안 쓰다보니 이런 부분도 점점 줄어들구요. 남자지만 게임도 잘 안 하고 스포츠도 관심 없습니다. 그래서인지 여자사람친구가 많은 편인데 나이 들면서 남녀 둘이서 자주 만나기도 스스로 불편하다고 느낍니다. 친한 친구에 대한 기준이 높은건지.. 중고등학교때 친구 한~두 명 정도 있고 군대에서 친구 한 명, 대학친구들은 친하다고 생각한 친구들이 있었는데 돌이켜보니 그저 대학친구이고 힘들 때 도움줄 것 같은 친구들이 아니네요. 혼자 지내는 거 자체는 편합니다. 저한테 집중하기 편하고 좋은데, 앞으로 일반 기업에 취직해서 사회생활 할 때 불편함이 있진 않을까 걱정되네요. 문과이다보니, 기술이 있는 것도 아니고 어느정도 취업하고 나서 인맥관리나 영업하는 능력이 필요하다고 생각이 들어요. 지금도 뭐 두루두루 얕은 관계는 맺어두지만 무리 안에서 진짜 친한 친구는 보통 없거나 한 명정도 있고 그랬어요. 남들 눈에는 내성적으로 보이나 봐요. 또, 남자인데 일반 남자 또래랑 성향이나 행동이 비슷하지 않고 오히려 여자들이랑 공감을 잘 하는 편이라 고민이네요. 인생 선배분들 조언 부탁드립니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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85164 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
85164 class='vcm '>
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85164'> 자몽에이드
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20/05/21 17:04
85164>삭제 주소복사
Warning: Use of undefined constant level - assumed 'level' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 150
MBTI가 재미있는 툴이긴 하지만 너는 딱 그런 사람이다라고 확정지어주는 도구는 아닙니다. 몇년 지나고 다시 검사 받으면 바뀌는 경우도 많죠.
제가 생각하기에는 굳이 내 성향은 이런데 사회생활을 하기 위해 이렇게 바꾸는게 좋을까? 이런 건 없다고 봅니다. 대표적인 직종으로 예를 들어 영업사원 같은 직업을 가지겠다라고 하시는게 아니면 굳이 자신을 그 틀에 맞추려고 바꾸실 필요는 없다고 생각 합니다. 같은 영업사원이라고 해도 누구는 화려한 입담으로 인생이야기, 야구이야기 하면서 친근함으로 다가가는 사람이 있는가 하면 누구는 내성적인 ... 더 보기
제가 생각하기에는 굳이 내 성향은 이런데 사회생활을 하기 위해 이렇게 바꾸는게 좋을까? 이런 건 없다고 봅니다. 대표적인 직종으로 예를 들어 영업사원 같은 직업을 가지겠다라고 하시는게 아니면 굳이 자신을 그 틀에 맞추려고 바꾸실 필요는 없다고 생각 합니다. 같은 영업사원이라고 해도 누구는 화려한 입담으로 인생이야기, 야구이야기 하면서 친근함으로 다가가는 사람이 있는가 하면 누구는 내성적인 ... 더 보기
MBTI가 재미있는 툴이긴 하지만 너는 딱 그런 사람이다라고 확정지어주는 도구는 아닙니다. 몇년 지나고 다시 검사 받으면 바뀌는 경우도 많죠.
제가 생각하기에는 굳이 내 성향은 이런데 사회생활을 하기 위해 이렇게 바꾸는게 좋을까? 이런 건 없다고 봅니다. 대표적인 직종으로 예를 들어 영업사원 같은 직업을 가지겠다라고 하시는게 아니면 굳이 자신을 그 틀에 맞추려고 바꾸실 필요는 없다고 생각 합니다. 같은 영업사원이라고 해도 누구는 화려한 입담으로 인생이야기, 야구이야기 하면서 친근함으로 다가가는 사람이 있는가 하면 누구는 내성적인 성격이어도 세심하게 거래처의 문제나 불만을 해결해주면서 다가가는 사람도 있습니다. 일반 사무직도 대인관계는 서먹하지만 조용히 혼자 일 잘 처리하는 식으로 인정 받는 사람도 있고 여기저기 다니면서 비위 맞추고 겉으로 그럴싸하게 보여서 인정받는 사람도 있죠.
중요한건 그 직종, 그 직장의 분위기가 글쓴이분과 맞는지가 중요하다고 봅니다. 본인이 원해서 바뀌는 것과 필요에 의해서 바뀌는 것은 분명 차이가 있습니다.
제가 생각하기에는 굳이 내 성향은 이런데 사회생활을 하기 위해 이렇게 바꾸는게 좋을까? 이런 건 없다고 봅니다. 대표적인 직종으로 예를 들어 영업사원 같은 직업을 가지겠다라고 하시는게 아니면 굳이 자신을 그 틀에 맞추려고 바꾸실 필요는 없다고 생각 합니다. 같은 영업사원이라고 해도 누구는 화려한 입담으로 인생이야기, 야구이야기 하면서 친근함으로 다가가는 사람이 있는가 하면 누구는 내성적인 성격이어도 세심하게 거래처의 문제나 불만을 해결해주면서 다가가는 사람도 있습니다. 일반 사무직도 대인관계는 서먹하지만 조용히 혼자 일 잘 처리하는 식으로 인정 받는 사람도 있고 여기저기 다니면서 비위 맞추고 겉으로 그럴싸하게 보여서 인정받는 사람도 있죠.
중요한건 그 직종, 그 직장의 분위기가 글쓴이분과 맞는지가 중요하다고 봅니다. 본인이 원해서 바뀌는 것과 필요에 의해서 바뀌는 것은 분명 차이가 있습니다.
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