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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Name | [익명] |
| Subject | 부모와 의절해서 잘 사는 법이 있을까요? |
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결혼할 남자친구는 중학생때 부모님께서 이혼하셨습니다. 아버지와 살았고 2년 후 남자친구와 나이 차이가 얼마 나지 않는 새어머니가 오셨고요. 대학 들어간 후에 20살이 넘게 차이 나는 동생이 생겼고, 아버지의 재혼 이후로는 집에서 지원받은 것이 없습니다. 정말 기본적인 의식주만 해결해주셨어요. 이혼 사유는 아버지의 귀책이 큰 듯 합니다. 아버지 성격이 독선적이고 이기적이십니다. 남자친구는 순종적이고 착한 아들로만 살아왔고요. 아버지는 남들이 봤을때 부유한 생활을 하시고, 남자친구는 산전수전 다 겪으면서 힘들게 지금까지 살아왔습니다. 결혼 준비를 하면서 지원받는 부분은 일절 없는데 저희 집에 요구하는 부분이 많았어요. 상견례날 결국 저희 부모님께 해서는 안될말까지 하시면서 상처를 주셨습니다. 그 자리에서 박차고 나와야할 상황이었는데 저희 부모님은 남자친구를 봐서 참으셨고요. 연애한 기간이 8년이고 남자친구의 인생사를 어머니께서 다 알고 계셨거든요.. 남자친구는 본인 인생의 신조가 남에게 해입히면서 살지 말자인데, 제 가족될 사람들에게 인생에서 제일 큰 상처를 입혔다고 절망했고.. 부모라는게 부끄럽고 수치스러우며 더이상 불행하게 살고 싶지 않아서 의절을 결심했습니다. 친어머니와는 이혼 가정이 아니라고 생각할 정도로 교류가 잦고 저도 어머님과 자주 봬요. 저였다면 스무살되었을 때 아버지와 연 끊고 어머니하고만 잘 지냈을텐데 착한 아들로 지내와서 그게 쉽지 않았나봅니다. 남자친구는 현재 아버지와는 연락하지 않고 지내고 있지만 친척들과는 왕래를 하고 있습니다. 늘 착한 아들, 장남으로 지내다가 관계를 끊기 어려워보이는데...어떻게 하면 더 잘 의절할 수 있을까요? 의절하는데 잘 의절하는 법은 없겠지만... 앞으로도 관계가 지속된다면 결혼생활이 삐걱거릴 것 같아서 겁이 납니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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의절하면 잘 살지 못할거라고 걱정하시는 이유를 잘 모르겠네요. 전 이렇게 생각합니다. 그게 가족이건 친구건 선생님이건 내게 마이너스가 되는 관계는 존재하게 마련이고, 이런건 끊을수록 삶의 질이 좋아진다구요.
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