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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Subject | 형제/자매 키우시는 분께 질문드립니다. |
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20개월 큰딸과 3개월 작은딸을 키우고 있습니다. 큰애때문에 고민이 많네요. 출산하러 갔을 때도 조리원 갔을 때도 아빠와 매우 잘 있었고 동생 데려왔을 때부터 지금까지 한번도 동생을 일부러 때린적도 없습니다. 예쁘다 해주는데 가끔 힘조절이 안돼서 둘째가 맞긴하지만요;;; 나름대로 적응을 잘 하고있다고 생각했는데 요즘 점점 애가 힘들어하는게 보이네요... 우선 식사거부가 너무 심합니다. 원래 밥 안먹는 아이이긴한데 요즘들어 먹던것조차 안먹고 하루에 밥 한끼 먹이기가 힘들어요. 어떤 날은 바나나 한개랑 우유 한잔으로 하루를 보내요;;;; 밥 먹는데 매달리면 관심받으려고 더 안먹을까봐 일단은 지켜보는 중인데 애가타요 ㅠㅠ 또 엄마인 저한테 무지 매달립니다. 둘째 태어난 이후엔 밤잠은 남편이랑 잤는데 요즘들어 남편이랑 절대 안자고 저하고만 자려고 하네요. 어젠 백화점 회전목마를 남편이랑 둘이 탔는데 세바퀴쯤 돌고 엄마!! 하면서 울더라구요;;; 전혀 그런 애가 아니었는데 말이죠. 밖에서 다닐 때도 제 손 안잡으면 움직이지도 않으려고 하고 집안에서도 제 근처에 있으려해요. 동생 안고있으면 자기 안아달라고 매달리는 건 기본이구요;;; 동생이 울면 저 못가게 하려고 계속 제 관심 끌기위해 애써요;;; 시간이 지나면 괜찮아지려니 하다가도 이러다 애한테 문제생기는 거 아닌가 걱정이 되네요. 일단 밥 안먹는게 제일 걱정이예요. 우리 딸 어떻게 돌봐줘야 좀 나아질까요? Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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24103 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
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24103'> Liebe
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24103>삭제 주소복사
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가장 힘드실때인것 같아요. 둘째도 한창 손이 갈텐데요. 큰애의 마음을 들여다보고 이해해주는것이 필요하다고 들었어요. 큰 애가 먹는걸로 엄마의 관심을 유도하는것 같은 모습도 보이구요. 이럴때 둘째는 아빠나 친척에게 맡기고 온전히 큰애랑의 시간을 가지시는지, 기저귀 가는것 등 둘째 돌보는것에 큰애도 동참을 시켜서 동생이 언니나 엄마의 도움이 필요하다는것을 스스로 알게끔하거나, 말씀하실때도
우리 ** 라고 사랑의 표현을 많이해주시는지...
관심을 보여달라는 아이가 이해할수 있는 단어로 엄마는 사랑한단다 하지만 떼를 쓰는건 멋진어린이가... 더 보기
우리 ** 라고 사랑의 표현을 많이해주시는지...
관심을 보여달라는 아이가 이해할수 있는 단어로 엄마는 사랑한단다 하지만 떼를 쓰는건 멋진어린이가... 더 보기
가장 힘드실때인것 같아요. 둘째도 한창 손이 갈텐데요. 큰애의 마음을 들여다보고 이해해주는것이 필요하다고 들었어요. 큰 애가 먹는걸로 엄마의 관심을 유도하는것 같은 모습도 보이구요. 이럴때 둘째는 아빠나 친척에게 맡기고 온전히 큰애랑의 시간을 가지시는지, 기저귀 가는것 등 둘째 돌보는것에 큰애도 동참을 시켜서 동생이 언니나 엄마의 도움이 필요하다는것을 스스로 알게끔하거나, 말씀하실때도
우리 ** 라고 사랑의 표현을 많이해주시는지...
관심을 보여달라는 아이가 이해할수 있는 단어로 엄마는 사랑한단다 하지만 떼를 쓰는건 멋진어린이가 하는 행동은 아니지라고 아이에게 본인은 사랑받을 수 있는 참 멋진아이이고 동생과는 다른 똑같이 사랑받는 존재라는걸 알려주어야하는데 참 어려운것 같아요.
둘째는 아직 어리고 자는 시간이 많으니 그 사이에 큰애랑 많이 놀아주시는것도 방법이 되더라구요.
밥으로 관심을 사려고하는지 식사예절은 밥먹는 환경등도 살펴봐야할것 같구요. 조금씩 노력하고 엄마의 사랑을 보이는것이 중요하지 싶어요. 화이팅!! 산후조리하실때인데 이때가 가장 엄마도 힘든때에요. 아웅.... 모쪼록 아빠나 주위도움을 많이 받으시는것 엄마가 덜 피곤하셔야 되요. 화이팅입니다.
우리 ** 라고 사랑의 표현을 많이해주시는지...
관심을 보여달라는 아이가 이해할수 있는 단어로 엄마는 사랑한단다 하지만 떼를 쓰는건 멋진어린이가 하는 행동은 아니지라고 아이에게 본인은 사랑받을 수 있는 참 멋진아이이고 동생과는 다른 똑같이 사랑받는 존재라는걸 알려주어야하는데 참 어려운것 같아요.
둘째는 아직 어리고 자는 시간이 많으니 그 사이에 큰애랑 많이 놀아주시는것도 방법이 되더라구요.
밥으로 관심을 사려고하는지 식사예절은 밥먹는 환경등도 살펴봐야할것 같구요. 조금씩 노력하고 엄마의 사랑을 보이는것이 중요하지 싶어요. 화이팅!! 산후조리하실때인데 이때가 가장 엄마도 힘든때에요. 아웅.... 모쪼록 아빠나 주위도움을 많이 받으시는것 엄마가 덜 피곤하셔야 되요. 화이팅입니다.
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