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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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오늘 회식이 있었습니다. 팀원 하나가 퇴사하여 송별회를 갖게 되었는데 끝나고 팀장(여자)이 팀원들한테 2차를 갈거냐 등등 어떻게 할거냐고 물어봤는데 저한테는 한 마디도 안물어보네요. 갈때도 먼저 잘가라는 소리도 안하더라고요. 순간 얼어붙었습니다. 왜 나한테는 예의상으로라도 안 물어보는거야? 순간 울컥했습니다. 신경을 안쓸수도 없고, 이 여자는 나를 팀원으로도 인식을 안하는건가 나를 비싼 알바생 취급 하는건가? 아님 날 질투하는건가 라는 생각을 했습니다. 곰곰히 생각을 해봤습니다. 내가 뭘 잘못한건가 팀장 눈에 거슬리는 행동을 한건가라고요. 아무리 생각을 해봐도 내가 그 사람한테 직접적인 피해를 끼친적도 없고 찍힐까봐 오히려 몸사리고 있다고요, 이런식의 텃세는 미쳐버릴 것 같습니다. 누구한테라도 하소연 할수도 없고 이제 석달만 지나면 일년인데 어떻게 해야할지 모르겠습니다. 나를 아직도 굴러들어온 돌 내지 외부인 취급하는 데 어찌해야 할지 길이 안보입니다. 일만 잘하면 된다고요? 사회생활은 그리 녹록치 않습니다, 일을 못하도록 방해 공작을 벌이기도 하고 사람 바보만드는거 한 순간입니다. 말없고 일만 하고 늘 혼자 있는게 그 사람 눈에는 좋게 보이지 않는걸까요? 저 빼고 수다를 잘 떨어요. 저한테는 업무적인거 외에 한 마디도 말 안걸고, 팀 내에서 내 처지를 제대로 깨닫게 되었습니다. 앞이 캄캄합니다. 나가는거는 싫어요. 어딜가도 텃세는 있기 마련인데 근데 내가 먼저 그 팀장한테 다가가도 받아주지 않을 것 같아요, 오히려 질척거린다고 나를 싫어할 것 같습니다. 어설픈 접근은 사이를 더 멀어지게 한다는 말이 있습니다. 그만둘꺼면 모를까 몇년은 다닐 생각이라 조금이라도 덜 배척받고 잘지내고 싶습니다. 전 회사에서도 무시와 텃세 땜에 괴로웠는데 똑같은 일을 더는 겪고싶지 않습니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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93761 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
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93761'> ikuk
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20/10/30 23:54
93761>삭제 주소복사
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팀장이면 다 챙기는게 이상적이겠지만, 원체 세상이 이상적으로 안돌아가더라구요. 그리고 그게 당연한게 세상이고요.
저도 어렸을때 이따금씩 이유없이 거리를 두는 사람들에게 (님과 비슷한) 의구심을 가져본 적이 있지만, 나조차 세상 모든 인간을 이유없이 좋아할 수 없으니, 저 사람도 별 도리 없으리라 생각했습니다. 큰 의미를 두지 마시고 일만 열심히 하시면 사회생활 녹록히 돌아갈겁니다.
그게 아니고 만약 모두와 사이 좋게 지내시고 싶은거라면, 혹여 매듭이라도 짓고 싶은거라면 하루빨리 커피라도 한잔하면서 팀장에게 본심을 이야기하는게 정... 더 보기
저도 어렸을때 이따금씩 이유없이 거리를 두는 사람들에게 (님과 비슷한) 의구심을 가져본 적이 있지만, 나조차 세상 모든 인간을 이유없이 좋아할 수 없으니, 저 사람도 별 도리 없으리라 생각했습니다. 큰 의미를 두지 마시고 일만 열심히 하시면 사회생활 녹록히 돌아갈겁니다.
그게 아니고 만약 모두와 사이 좋게 지내시고 싶은거라면, 혹여 매듭이라도 짓고 싶은거라면 하루빨리 커피라도 한잔하면서 팀장에게 본심을 이야기하는게 정... 더 보기
팀장이면 다 챙기는게 이상적이겠지만, 원체 세상이 이상적으로 안돌아가더라구요. 그리고 그게 당연한게 세상이고요.
저도 어렸을때 이따금씩 이유없이 거리를 두는 사람들에게 (님과 비슷한) 의구심을 가져본 적이 있지만, 나조차 세상 모든 인간을 이유없이 좋아할 수 없으니, 저 사람도 별 도리 없으리라 생각했습니다. 큰 의미를 두지 마시고 일만 열심히 하시면 사회생활 녹록히 돌아갈겁니다.
그게 아니고 만약 모두와 사이 좋게 지내시고 싶은거라면, 혹여 매듭이라도 짓고 싶은거라면 하루빨리 커피라도 한잔하면서 팀장에게 본심을 이야기하는게 정신건강에 좋을 것 같네요. 진짜 그 사람과 그 조직이 부조리인지, 내 행실 어떤 부분이 누군가에게 부조리로 받아들여졌는지 확실히하고 생채기를 도려내세요.
이제 본인이 할수 있는 것들을 스스로 하지 않으면 아무도 도와주지 않습니다.
저도 어렸을때 이따금씩 이유없이 거리를 두는 사람들에게 (님과 비슷한) 의구심을 가져본 적이 있지만, 나조차 세상 모든 인간을 이유없이 좋아할 수 없으니, 저 사람도 별 도리 없으리라 생각했습니다. 큰 의미를 두지 마시고 일만 열심히 하시면 사회생활 녹록히 돌아갈겁니다.
그게 아니고 만약 모두와 사이 좋게 지내시고 싶은거라면, 혹여 매듭이라도 짓고 싶은거라면 하루빨리 커피라도 한잔하면서 팀장에게 본심을 이야기하는게 정신건강에 좋을 것 같네요. 진짜 그 사람과 그 조직이 부조리인지, 내 행실 어떤 부분이 누군가에게 부조리로 받아들여졌는지 확실히하고 생채기를 도려내세요.
이제 본인이 할수 있는 것들을 스스로 하지 않으면 아무도 도와주지 않습니다.
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