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홍차넷
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추천
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- 회원들이 추천해주신 좋은 글들을 따로 모아놓는 공간입니다.
- 추천글은 매주 자문단의 투표로 선정됩니다.
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전체기타일상/생각꿀팁/강좌게임문학영화의료/건강문화/예술경제체육/스포츠과학철학/종교정치/사회요리/음식역사여행IT/컴퓨터음악창작사진
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전 20대 이후로 애들을 싫어했어요. 엄청 싫어했어요. 시끄럽고 말 안 듣고 까불고 약 올리고... 특히 말 못하는 아기들 울고 불고 난리 치면 가서 한 대 쥐어 박아주고 싶단 생각도 자주 했고 애들 자체를 별로 이뻐하지도 않았어요. 제 기준으론 이뻐할 구석이 없어요. 말도 안 듣고 때만 쓰는데.... 귀엽다 사랑스럽다 예쁘다 하나도 공감 못 했어요.. 그냥 꼬맹이들은 어리니까 까불어도 참아준다 정도.... 갓난 아기들은 아기라 말 못하니까 참아준다.. 집에 와서 어머니랑 이야기 하다 이런 저런 이야기하며 이런 이야기 하면서 진짜 짜증난다고 하면 어머니가 "아들아. 너도 애를 낳아보면 왜 그런지 이해할꺼다. 넌 아이가 없으니 아직 모르지."하고 말해주시면 전 "난 애 안낳을 거라서 이해 할 필요 없어요!"라고 대꾸하곤 했어요.. 어디 장거리 갈 때 고속 버스나 기차 안에서 아기들 울고 불고 난리 피우면 왜 저렇게 안 달래나 속으로 부모들 욕하고 스트레쓰 엄청 받고... 난 애기 절대 안 낳아야지.. 생각하고 그랬죠. 결혼 하고도 생각이 안 바뀌고 아내랑 이야기 할 때도 애들 하나도 안 이쁘니까 애 안 낳고 살자고 그랬어요. 아내가 우리 닮은 애기 있으면 이뿌지 않을까? 물어봐도 시큰둥.. 어 그래 하고 말았어요.. 근데 덜컥 아내가 임신을 했는데 억장이 무너지는 것 같았어요. 가뜩이나 경제적으로도 육제적으로도 힘든데 애까지 생기면 어쩌자는 거지.. 아내도 어떻게 하냐며 펑펑 울고..;;;; 1주일 정도 지나니까 마음이 좀 차분해져서 억지로 마음 다잡고 기왕 이렇게 된거 낳아서 잘 키워보자며 아내를 다독이고 위로하며 괜찮다 했지만 속으론 저도 미칠 것 같았어요. 앞으로 너무 불안하잖아요. 돈도 별로 없고 집도 좁고 애도 싫어하는데 내가 잘 할 수 있을까?? 너무 걱정 됬어요.. 근데 시간이 지나면서 아내는 아이에 대한 애착이 생기고 너무 소중하게 느끼더라구요. 전 크게 감흥이 없었는데 아내가 너무 소중하게 여기니까 조금씩 소중하게 생각하려고 노력했죠. 또 임신중에 아내가 너무 너무 입덧이 심해서 거의 9개월을 누워있다시피 하고 먹고 마시는거도 힘들어 해서 가끔 괜히 임신되게 만들어서 이쁜 아내 고생한다고 후회도 많이 했어요. 자연 유산 되버리면 좋겠다고 나쁜 생각 한 적도 있어요. 그래서 아내한테 엄청 혼나기도 했습니다. 근데 애가 태어나고 나니까 바뀌었어요. 그냥 한 순간에 바뀌더라구요. 병원에서 애기 태어났다고 간호사분이 안고 나오는데 쭈그리처럼 웃긴데 이뻐보이더라구요. 아내는 출산 후에도 임신 기간 있었던 병 때문에 출산 후에도 2달을 더 병원에 입원해서 치료를 받아야 했어요. 그 기간 동안 아기를 저랑 어머니랑 돌봤는데 애기가 울기만 해도 맘이 아파요.. 갑자기 내 애가 생기니까 아이들이 너무 예뻐요.. 내 애 뿐만이 아니라 다른 어린 아가들 어린이들이 다 그냥 다 예뻐져요..;;;; 저도 속으로 뭐 이런 놈이 다 있지.. 라고 생각했을 정도로 그냥 확 바뀌더라구요.. 그 뒤론 애들이 이쁘고 사랑스럽고 안쓰러워요. 아가들이 울면 배가 고픈가 엄마한테 안아달라고 하나 뭐가 불편한가 먼저 걱정이 들고 딴 친구들이 왜 저러냐고 짜증내면 애들은 원래 저런다고 이야기 하고 있어요..;; 친구들 중 하나가 절 잘 아는데 뭐 이런 놈이 다 있냐고 뭐라 하더라구요. 사람이 왜 그러냐고.. 자기 아들 낳으니까 그 싫어하던 애들이 갑자기 이뻐보이냐고 사람이 왤케 쉽게 바뀌냐고..;;; 근데 진짜 이 감정을 배우고 느끼게 되니까 다 이해가 되고 그럴 수 있다고 생각이 들더라구요.. 물론 도가 지나치게 버릇없거나 한 아이들은 이쁘게 안 보일 때도 있지만 보통은 아이보단 부모 욕을 하게 되더라구요.. 예전에는 애들 욕 했는데 그게 부모의 지도가 얼마나 중요한지 알게 되니까 애들은 그냥 안타깝고 짠해보여요.. 세월호가 침몰 했을 때도 너무너무 힘들었어요.. 눈물이 나고 가슴 아프고.. 불쌍한 아이들이 그렇게 허무하게 이 세상을 떠난다는게 너무 괴로웠어요. 근데 그 때 아이 없는 친구들하고 대화를 하면 확실히 말이 잘 안 통한다는 느낌이 많이 들더라구요. 이게 슬픈 일이지만 내 일은 아닌 감정과 슬픈 일이고 내 일이 될 수 있는 정말 내 일 같은 감정과는 좀 거리가 있는... 지금은 아이들 좋아하려고 노력합니다. 다른 사람이 내 아이를 보며 예전의 나 같은 감정을 가지고 있다는 걸 부모로서 알게되면 너무 너무 힘들고 가슴 아플거 같아요. 그래서 저도 다른 아이들 보면서 항상 예쁘고 사랑스럽게 생각하려고 합니다. 정말 아이 하나 생기는게 많은 걸 바꿔 놓았어요. 단순히 2+1이 아니라 2+1+a 가 되더라구요. 더 많은 걱정과 더 많은 책임 더 많은 슬픔과 더 많은 아픔 그리고 그걸 아득히 넘어서는 행복과 사랑 그리고 시야를 가지게 만들어줬어요.. 아이를 양육하는 건 정말 힘든 일입니다. 모든 것이 다 바뀌게 되죠. 근데 그건 결혼할 때도 마찬가지예요. 혼자였다 둘이 되는 것 역시 많은 걸 바꿔야하죠. 하지만 사랑하니까 감수하고 서로 변화를 인정하고 이해하며 맞춰나가는 거죠. 아이를 낳는 것 역시 그렇습니다. 대부분의 것을 바꿔야 합니다. 어려운 일이죠. 하지만 대부분의 부모들은 바꾸더라구요. 전 제가 이렇게 아이들을 사랑하게 될 줄 생각도 못 했습니다.. 너무 예쁘고 사랑스럽고 안아주고싶죠. 아이가 아프면 함께 아프고 아이가 기쁘면 함께 기뻐요. 제 아들이 소중하니 다른 아이들도 소중해져요. 다 밝고 예쁘게 자라면 너무 좋겠단 생각을 하죠. 이건 정말 경험하지 않으면 알 수가 없어요. 정말 부모분들은 다 동의 하실텐데 뭔가 지금까지 감춰져있던 신비로운 것 하나를 알게 된거죠... 그렇다고 내 모든 걸 포기하는 건 아니예요. 남편과 아내가 서로 협조하고 노력하면서 함께 양육하면 되요. 전 코로나 전까지 아이 세 살부터 함께 여행도 엄청 다녔고 어린이집 갔을 때 아내랑 영화도 보러 다녔고, 예쁜 카페 가서 커피도 즐겨 마셨고, 여름엔 축구도 했고 겨울엔 스키장도 자주 다녔어요. 아이랑 함께 할 때도 있었고 없었을 때도 있었죠. 함께 못 했을 때는 아이랑 같이 못 와서 마음이 아팠고, 미안했고, 또 한 편으로는 아내랑 둘 만의 시간을 보내서 즐겁기도 했죠. 아이를 양육한다는 건 많은 걸 바꿔놓습니다. 저 같은 경우는 굉장히 긍정적으로 바뀌었죠.. 제가 일생에 잘 한 일이 두 가지 있는데 첫 번째는 제 아내를 만나 결혼한거고 두 번째는 제 아들을 낳은거죠. 아이들 꼬맹이들이라면 치를 떨며 도망갈 정도였는데 지금은 너무 좋으니까요. 지금 혹시 자녀 계획 때문에 걱정하시는 분들이 계시다면 잘 생각해보세요. 몹시 극적인 변화이기 때문에 고민도 많고 두려움도 많으실 겁니다. 하지만 단언하건데 아이를 낳는 기쁨은 인생을 걸고 도전하고 경험해 볼만한 가치가 있습니다. 진짜로요.. 계획이 없으시다구요? 그럼 피임 철저히 하시면서 지금의 삶을 누리세요. 전 그럼 이만.. 처자식 먹여살리려면 일 해야해서.... 그럼 다음에 또 만나요~ 안뇽~ * Cascade님에 의해서 티타임 게시판으로부터 게시물 복사되었습니다 (2020-12-29 20:13) * 관리사유 : 추천게시판으로 복사합니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 36
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전 20후반 쯤 되면서 부터 애들이 그리 이뻐지더라구요. 같이 산 조카 두 명은 그냥 제 딸 같습니다.
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