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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Subject | 직장 선배의 뒷담화를 들었습니다. |
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직장 선배가 제 욕을 하는 것을 우연히 알게 되었습니다. 멘탈 관리 차원에서 어떻게 하면 좋을지 여쭤봅니다. 사회 생활에 대한 한 마디의 조언일지라도 감사히 듣겠습니다. 제가 속한 부서는 그동안 경력이 오래된 팀원들이 많았습니다. 하지만 부서 재배치 등으로 인해 갑자기 신입들이 들어왔고, 본인이 직접 끌고 가야 한다는 점 때문에 A대리님이 스트레스를 많이 받는 것 같습니다. 제 바로 윗 기수 선배 B가 있지만 B 선배 역시 신입인건 마찬가지입니다. 얼마 전 저의 이런저런 실수들로 멘탈이 산산조각 났습니다. 계속 업무 처리하면서 멘탈 부여잡고 있는 중에 자리를 비우신 옆자리 대리님의 카톡을 보게 되었습니다. 카톡 내용은 온갖 쌍욕이 포함된 제 욕이었고 대화 상대는 다른 부서의 팀원들이었습니다. "덜떨어진놈, 대학교는 나온 것 맞냐. 처음부터 끝까지 ㅂㅅ이다. 이 ㅅㄲ 뒤치닥거리 하느라 내 청춘 다 간다," 손이 덜덜 떨리는거 참고 모른 척 하면서 넘어갔는데, 그 이후로 유심히 보니 이런 뒷담화가 일상인 듯 합니다. 대리님과는 함께한 시간이 오래 되지 않았기 때문에 좋을 것도 나쁠 것도 없는 사이입니다. 출/퇴근시 인사하고 중간중간 가볍게 대화를 나누는 정도인데 그 날 이후로 부담스러워서 가벼운 대화도 하기 어렵습니다. 업무에 대해 문의해야 할 때도 무조건 팀장님께 여쭤보고 있고 최대한 피하려고 하는 중입니다. 이럴 때는 어떻게 대처해야 하는게 맞을까요? 시간이 지나면 괜찮아지지 않을까 생각했었는데 저런 부류의 사람과 굳이 잘 지내야 하는지 의문이 듭니다.. 다만, 신입 때부터 이렇게 미운털 박혀서 회사생활이 굉장히 힘들어지지 않을까 하는 생각도 들구요. 고민이 많습니다. 조언 부탁드립니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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48584 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
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48584'> 化神
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48584>삭제 주소복사
Warning: Use of undefined constant level - assumed 'level' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 150
저도 처음에 (다른 양상으로) 저를 힘들게 하는 분이 있었는데 회사 생활 꼬일까봐 못 부딪혔는데 이제와서 생각해보면 후회됩니다.
글쓴분 성격이 강대강으로 부딪힐 수 있는 성격이신지는 모르겠습니다만, 이런 고민을 적으신거 보면 아닐 확률이 높아보이기는 한데 그래도
먼저, 본인의 업무 능력에 대해 생각해보시고 그만한 뒷담을 참고 넘겨야 할 정도로 자신이 없다면 모르겠지만 그 이상의 인격 모독이다 생각되면 부딪히시는게 낫다고 봅니다. 호구보다 호로새끼 되는게 낫고요 회사 생활도 찬찬히 살펴보면 다 FFA 더라고요 선배 하나 들... 더 보기
글쓴분 성격이 강대강으로 부딪힐 수 있는 성격이신지는 모르겠습니다만, 이런 고민을 적으신거 보면 아닐 확률이 높아보이기는 한데 그래도
먼저, 본인의 업무 능력에 대해 생각해보시고 그만한 뒷담을 참고 넘겨야 할 정도로 자신이 없다면 모르겠지만 그 이상의 인격 모독이다 생각되면 부딪히시는게 낫다고 봅니다. 호구보다 호로새끼 되는게 낫고요 회사 생활도 찬찬히 살펴보면 다 FFA 더라고요 선배 하나 들... 더 보기
저도 처음에 (다른 양상으로) 저를 힘들게 하는 분이 있었는데 회사 생활 꼬일까봐 못 부딪혔는데 이제와서 생각해보면 후회됩니다.
글쓴분 성격이 강대강으로 부딪힐 수 있는 성격이신지는 모르겠습니다만, 이런 고민을 적으신거 보면 아닐 확률이 높아보이기는 한데 그래도
먼저, 본인의 업무 능력에 대해 생각해보시고 그만한 뒷담을 참고 넘겨야 할 정도로 자신이 없다면 모르겠지만 그 이상의 인격 모독이다 생각되면 부딪히시는게 낫다고 봅니다. 호구보다 호로새끼 되는게 낫고요 회사 생활도 찬찬히 살펴보면 다 FFA 더라고요 선배 하나 들이 받는다고 다른 선배들이 다 같이 찍어누르는 경우는 잘 없는거 같습니다. (뒤에서 뒷담할 지는 몰라도)
그리고 능력이 있는 후배든 아닌 후배든 그들을 이끌어가야 하는것도 그 선배의 업무중 하나입니다. 못하겠으면 자기 능력이 후배 케어할 능력이 안 되는거죠. 저는 글쓴 분이 그렇게 쫄아서 소극적으로 대응하실 필요는 없다고 생각합니다.
- 현실적으로 지금은 그냥 모르는척 행동하시고 그 선배의 반응을 살펴보시면서 대놓고 티만 안 내면 그냥저냥 맞춰서 행동하시는게 나을것 같습니다. 본인 멘탈 케어 하시구요.
글쓴분 성격이 강대강으로 부딪힐 수 있는 성격이신지는 모르겠습니다만, 이런 고민을 적으신거 보면 아닐 확률이 높아보이기는 한데 그래도
먼저, 본인의 업무 능력에 대해 생각해보시고 그만한 뒷담을 참고 넘겨야 할 정도로 자신이 없다면 모르겠지만 그 이상의 인격 모독이다 생각되면 부딪히시는게 낫다고 봅니다. 호구보다 호로새끼 되는게 낫고요 회사 생활도 찬찬히 살펴보면 다 FFA 더라고요 선배 하나 들이 받는다고 다른 선배들이 다 같이 찍어누르는 경우는 잘 없는거 같습니다. (뒤에서 뒷담할 지는 몰라도)
그리고 능력이 있는 후배든 아닌 후배든 그들을 이끌어가야 하는것도 그 선배의 업무중 하나입니다. 못하겠으면 자기 능력이 후배 케어할 능력이 안 되는거죠. 저는 글쓴 분이 그렇게 쫄아서 소극적으로 대응하실 필요는 없다고 생각합니다.
- 현실적으로 지금은 그냥 모르는척 행동하시고 그 선배의 반응을 살펴보시면서 대놓고 티만 안 내면 그냥저냥 맞춰서 행동하시는게 나을것 같습니다. 본인 멘탈 케어 하시구요.
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