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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Name | 핑퐁 |
| Subject | [연애] 문자에 답안하는 남자 |
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관심남이 있습니다. 일로 알고 지낸지 한 2년되었고 그냥 예의갖추며 서로 몇달에 한번 얼굴 보며 지내는 사이였는데 최근 제가 어떤 일을 계기로 이 사람을 좋아하게 되었고 이 사람도 제게 약간의 호감이 생긴거 같기도 하지만 그건 저의 추측일뿐 그의 마음은 잘 모르겠습니다. 어쨌든 그랑 예전에 메세지를 주고 받을때는 그런 느낌이 없었는데 뭐랄까 제가 호감을 갖고나서 제가 너무 발랄하게 친한척 보내서 그런가 그가 약간 템포를 늦게 보낸다는 느낌을 받긴 했었습니다. 그러다가 하루 반나절동안 데이트 비스무리하게 저번주에 했고 그때 참 잘해줘서 집에 와서 문자를 보냈는데 그 담날 읽고 하루종일 답이 없더군요 제가 문자를 씹거나 잠수타는 사람이 제일 싫다라는 말을 한 적이 있었는데 그때 아 자신도 약간 그런 버릇이 있어서 그 심리를 좀 안다는 식으로 얘기하면서 그 심리를 설명하려 하기에 제가 약간 장난치면서 "아 듣기 싫어. 그런 사람은 정말 싫어"라고 말한 적이 있었는데 하루종일 답신이 없어서 실망스럽기도 하고 매우 화가 나 그에 대한 맘을 접으려는 찰나 하루 24시간이 지나 매우 아무렇지 않은 듯 자신의 근황과 오늘 뭐뭐행사 잘 치르라라는 식의 다정한 문자가 왔습니다. 뭐 사정이 있었겠지 하며 맘을 풀었고 그 후 한 일주일은 서로 연락하지 않았습니다. 그러다가 며칠전에 그에게 물건을 보냈고 오늘쯤 받았을거 같아 잘 받았냐고 물어보니 읽고 나서 역시 답이 없습니다. 제가 쓰는 메신저는 카톡이 아닙니다. 다른 메신저인데 읽은 시간까지 나오는데 답을 안했더군요 피곤해서 읽고 바로 잤나 싶었지만 한시간 후에 페북에 접속한 기록이 있네요 매우 기분이 안좋습니다. 예전에는 이런 일이 없었습니다. 아는 남자사람친구는 그 사람도 네게 호감이 있는거 같고 좋아하는 사람에게 문자를 보낼때는 매우 신중하고 에너지가 많이 쓰이기 때문에 늦게 보낼수도 있다라고 말을 하지만 이해할 수 없어요 예전에는 이런 적이 없었는데 지금 이런다는 건 제게 마음이 없다는 증거가 아닐까요? 저도 별로 마음없는 사람에게는 이렇게 문자에 무심히 늦게 답하기도 하거든요 그래도 답신이 오면... 아 근데 답신이 너무 늦게 와서 기다리느라 힘들었다.문자를 그렇게 읽고 답을 오래 안하면 서운하다......라고 말을 하려는데..왠지 아무 사이도 아닌데 집착하는거 같기도 하고 어떻게 해야할지 잘 모르겠어요 아 맨날 짝사랑만 하는 게 너무 힘들어요 ㅠㅠ Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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1637 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
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1637>삭제 주소복사
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남자들중 많은 수는 읽음 확인을 상대가 신경쓰는 상황을 별로 좋아하지 않습니다.
사귀는 사이라면 충분히 그런 것을 배려할 수도 있지만, 사귀기 전이라면 그걸 당위적으로 받아들이기는 힘들거 같아요.
만약 마음이 있더라도 그런 지적을 받으면 포기해야 하나 생각 할 수 있을 정도일 수도 있습니다.
그 심리를 설명하려고 할 때 본인의 의사 표현을 참으시고 잘 들어두셨으면 정보적인 차원에선 좋았지 않았을까 싶네요.
사람들이 연애하는 동안에는 상대에 맞춰 자신을 변화시키기도 합니다.
그러면서 정말 변하는 부분도 있지만, 대개는 텐... 더 보기
사귀는 사이라면 충분히 그런 것을 배려할 수도 있지만, 사귀기 전이라면 그걸 당위적으로 받아들이기는 힘들거 같아요.
만약 마음이 있더라도 그런 지적을 받으면 포기해야 하나 생각 할 수 있을 정도일 수도 있습니다.
그 심리를 설명하려고 할 때 본인의 의사 표현을 참으시고 잘 들어두셨으면 정보적인 차원에선 좋았지 않았을까 싶네요.
사람들이 연애하는 동안에는 상대에 맞춰 자신을 변화시키기도 합니다.
그러면서 정말 변하는 부분도 있지만, 대개는 텐... 더 보기
남자들중 많은 수는 읽음 확인을 상대가 신경쓰는 상황을 별로 좋아하지 않습니다.
사귀는 사이라면 충분히 그런 것을 배려할 수도 있지만, 사귀기 전이라면 그걸 당위적으로 받아들이기는 힘들거 같아요.
만약 마음이 있더라도 그런 지적을 받으면 포기해야 하나 생각 할 수 있을 정도일 수도 있습니다.
그 심리를 설명하려고 할 때 본인의 의사 표현을 참으시고 잘 들어두셨으면 정보적인 차원에선 좋았지 않았을까 싶네요.
사람들이 연애하는 동안에는 상대에 맞춰 자신을 변화시키기도 합니다.
그러면서 정말 변하는 부분도 있지만, 대개는 텐션이 떨어지면 자신이 선호하는 삶의 태도로 다시 돌아가게 마련이지요.
설명하신걸로 봐서는 남자분이 원래 재깍재깍 답하는 스타일은 아니신 거 같아 보이는데, 그 분과 관계를 지속하고 싶은 생각이라면 글쓴이 님이 그 부분에 대해서 포기하고 마음을 비우시는게 더 낫지 않을까 싶습니다.
사귀는 사이라면 충분히 그런 것을 배려할 수도 있지만, 사귀기 전이라면 그걸 당위적으로 받아들이기는 힘들거 같아요.
만약 마음이 있더라도 그런 지적을 받으면 포기해야 하나 생각 할 수 있을 정도일 수도 있습니다.
그 심리를 설명하려고 할 때 본인의 의사 표현을 참으시고 잘 들어두셨으면 정보적인 차원에선 좋았지 않았을까 싶네요.
사람들이 연애하는 동안에는 상대에 맞춰 자신을 변화시키기도 합니다.
그러면서 정말 변하는 부분도 있지만, 대개는 텐션이 떨어지면 자신이 선호하는 삶의 태도로 다시 돌아가게 마련이지요.
설명하신걸로 봐서는 남자분이 원래 재깍재깍 답하는 스타일은 아니신 거 같아 보이는데, 그 분과 관계를 지속하고 싶은 생각이라면 글쓴이 님이 그 부분에 대해서 포기하고 마음을 비우시는게 더 낫지 않을까 싶습니다.
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