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홍차넷
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Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/outlogin_toby.php on line 45
Warning: Use of undefined constant r - assumed 'r' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/outlogin_toby.php on line 47
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Warning: Use of undefined constant is_admin - assumed 'is_admin' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/zero_header.php on line 269
Warning: Use of undefined constant level - assumed 'level' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/zero_header.php on line 300
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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Warning: Use of undefined constant use_category - assumed 'use_category' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/include/print_category.php on line 9
전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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Warning: Use of undefined constant x - assumed 'x' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/view.php on line 398
Warning: Use of undefined constant name - assumed 'name' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 2
Warning: Use of undefined constant HTTP_HOST - assumed 'HTTP_HOST' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/pb/memo_replace.php on line 3
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| Date |
Warning: Use of undefined constant reg_date - assumed 'reg_date' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 53 22/09/25 22:33:28 Warning: Use of undefined constant mod_date - assumed 'mod_date' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 56 수정됨 |
| Name | [익명] |
| Subject | 여친의 갑작스러운 상황변화에 지쳐갑니다. |
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작성자가 본문을 삭제한 글입니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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Warning: Use of undefined constant ismember - assumed 'ismember' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 6
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127624 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
127624 class='vcm '>
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127624'> Thy킹덤
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22/09/25 23:16
127624>삭제 주소복사
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선생님은 의료계 종사자라 이런 상황에 대해 잘 안다고 생각하시지만,
여친의 입장에서는 모든게 처음이고 낯설고 당황스러운 상황입니다.
무언가 이 상황에 대해 적응을 하고 주변을 돌아볼 여유가 생기려면 6개월은 지나야 될까 말까 할텐데...
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그 아이들은 하루 하루가 중요한 학생인 상황이고,
3달 마다 중간고사, 기말고사를 봐야 하는 상황입니다.
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미성년인 동생들은 오죽할까요?
그 아이들은 하루 하루가 중요한 학생인 상황이고,
3달 마다 중간고사, 기말고사를 봐야 하는 상황입니다.
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여친의 입장에서는 모든게 처음이고 낯설고 당황스러운 상황입니다.
무언가 이 상황에 대해 적응을 하고 주변을 돌아볼 여유가 생기려면 6개월은 지나야 될까 말까 할텐데...
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3달 마다 중간고사, 기말고사를 봐야 하는 상황입니다.
그 아이들이 어떻게 스스로 앞가림을 할 수 있을까요?
지금 상황에서 이정도 감정을 느끼신다면
진지하게 결혼 이후의 관계에 대해서도 생각을 해보시길 권합니다.
이 상황은 어찌보면 굉장히 냉정하고 이성적인 계산이 들어가있습니다.
그래도 이정도 현실적인 이야기를 해도 선생님이라면 크게 기분이 나쁘지 않으실 수도 있을 것 같아 댓글을 달아봅니다.
선생님은 지금의 여친과 이러저러한 감정적인 골들을 다 해결하게 되면
짧은 시간 내에 이 분과 결혼을 할 확률이 상당히 높습니다.
그리고 그렇게 되면 선생님은 맏사위가 됩니다.
그리고 그 상황속에서 (이런 일이 있으면 안되겠지만) 장인어른의 장례를 치룰 확률이 꽤 높을 것 같습니다.
그러면 선생님은 맏사위로써 이런 저런 장례를 잘 리드하면서 처리할 수 있으십니까?
그 뒤로도 남겨진 선생님의 아내와, 장모님과 어린 처남들이 있는데 그들에게는 어떤 포지션으로 어떤 모습을 보이실 수 있습니까?
나이로나 위치로나 집안의 버팀목으로써 처가 식구들을 위로하고 다독거려주면서 실질적인 아들 역할을 수행할 수 있고 하고 싶으십니까?
아니면 6주정도까지 참아줬는데도 처가 식구들이 계속 다운되고 부정적이면, '어차피 되돌릴 수 없는 법이고 살 사람들은 긍정적으로 살아야지 왜들 호들갑인지 모르겠다'고 익명으로 올리실겁니까?
잘 생각해보시고, 이 관계에 대해서도 진지하게 검토해보시기 바랍니다.
여친의 입장에서는 모든게 처음이고 낯설고 당황스러운 상황입니다.
무언가 이 상황에 대해 적응을 하고 주변을 돌아볼 여유가 생기려면 6개월은 지나야 될까 말까 할텐데...
6주는 너무 짧은 것 같습니다.
성인도 부모님이 큰 병으로 쓰러지면 멘탈을 잡기가 쉽지가 않은데
미성년인 동생들은 오죽할까요?
그 아이들은 하루 하루가 중요한 학생인 상황이고,
3달 마다 중간고사, 기말고사를 봐야 하는 상황입니다.
그 아이들이 어떻게 스스로 앞가림을 할 수 있을까요?
지금 상황에서 이정도 감정을 느끼신다면
진지하게 결혼 이후의 관계에 대해서도 생각을 해보시길 권합니다.
이 상황은 어찌보면 굉장히 냉정하고 이성적인 계산이 들어가있습니다.
그래도 이정도 현실적인 이야기를 해도 선생님이라면 크게 기분이 나쁘지 않으실 수도 있을 것 같아 댓글을 달아봅니다.
선생님은 지금의 여친과 이러저러한 감정적인 골들을 다 해결하게 되면
짧은 시간 내에 이 분과 결혼을 할 확률이 상당히 높습니다.
그리고 그렇게 되면 선생님은 맏사위가 됩니다.
그리고 그 상황속에서 (이런 일이 있으면 안되겠지만) 장인어른의 장례를 치룰 확률이 꽤 높을 것 같습니다.
그러면 선생님은 맏사위로써 이런 저런 장례를 잘 리드하면서 처리할 수 있으십니까?
그 뒤로도 남겨진 선생님의 아내와, 장모님과 어린 처남들이 있는데 그들에게는 어떤 포지션으로 어떤 모습을 보이실 수 있습니까?
나이로나 위치로나 집안의 버팀목으로써 처가 식구들을 위로하고 다독거려주면서 실질적인 아들 역할을 수행할 수 있고 하고 싶으십니까?
아니면 6주정도까지 참아줬는데도 처가 식구들이 계속 다운되고 부정적이면, '어차피 되돌릴 수 없는 법이고 살 사람들은 긍정적으로 살아야지 왜들 호들갑인지 모르겠다'고 익명으로 올리실겁니까?
잘 생각해보시고, 이 관계에 대해서도 진지하게 검토해보시기 바랍니다.
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