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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Subject | 중학생 자녀의 전학 진로 고민입니다. |
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현재 중학교2학년 여자 아이를 둔 학부모 입니다. 아이는 비교적 학습에 충실한 편이며 학업 성적에 매우 열정이 있습니다. 지금 있는 반에 이번 학기 반장으로 선출됐으며 공부에도 욕심이 있습니다. 허나 저희가 살고 있는 집이 국민임대 아파트입니다. 아이가 다니는 학교는 판교이며 매우 비싼 단지의 아이들과 같이 배정된 학교를 다니고 있습니다. 중학교 1학년은 코로나로 인해 온라인 수업이 대부분으로 학급 아이들과 마주칠 일이 별로 없어서 잘 몰랐는데 이젠 대면수업을 통해 같은 반 친구들과 지내다보니 많은 차별을 느끼고 있습니다. 어디 사는지에 대한 차별이 가장 심하다고 합니다. 그로인해 친구들의 차별에 많은 스트레스를 받고 있습니다. 그냥 기사로만 접했던 일들이 제 아이의 생활에 직접적인 영향을 끼친다고 하니 걱정이 많이 됩니다. 아이들 입는 옷의 브랜드부터 휴대폰 기종, 신발까지 좋은 단지에 사는 친구들의 조롱이 있었나 봅니다. 그래도 너무 다행스럽게도 딸 아이는 그런 불만 불평없이 잘 지내주어서 너무 고마웠습니다. 공부 잘하고 친구들과 잘 지내면 좋을 줄 알았는데 그게 아닌가 봅니다. 학급내 전교 부회장이라는 친구의 집요한 지적이 매우 부담스러운 싱황입니다. 딸 아이가 반장이라는 이유로 수행평가 점수를 받는 것에 불만이 있는 친구입니다. 그래서 무슨 일이든 반장이라는 이유로 딸아이에게 책임을 전가하려고 한답니다. 어른이라면 무시하거나 갱판을 치거나 해서 상황을 변화해 보려 하겠지만, 아직 어린 아이라 그 또한 쉽지 않습니다. 그렇다고 이번 학년이 지난다고 거주지에 대한 차별이 없어진다는 보장도 없는 상태라 이사를 가야하는지에 대한 고민이 있습니다. 이사를 간다면 성남시 구시가지로 가야하는데 그곳의 학교 분위기를 함부로 판단할 수 없는 노릇이라 생각이 많네요. 이런 상황에서 아이에게 해줄 조언이 있다면 무엇이든 알려주세요. 아이의 고민을 늦게나마 알 수 있어 한편으론 고마우면서도 정말 가슴이 아려집니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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120625 class="iamcmt" style="display:none;"> Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view_comment.php on line 66
120625 class='vcm '>
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120625'> 安穩
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120625>삭제 주소복사
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아...어렵네요.
그래도 반장을 하고 있는 걸로 봐서 비교적 친구관계가 원만한 것 같습니다. 전교 부회장인 아이가 어떤 식으로 행동하는지 에피소드가 없어 판단하기가 좀 힘겹고요.
글만 본다면 소위 학군지에서 비학군지로 이전하게 되는 것 같은데 아이가 더 적응하기 어려울 수 있습니다(저는 비학군지 -> 특목고 진학했을 때 제일 좋았던 점이 공부를 해도 별말 안듣는다는 것이었고 다들 공부 열심히 하는 것이었어요. 학교생활 숨통이 트였어요).
아이와 좀 더 면밀하게 말을 나누시면서 학폭 수준인지 여부를 판단해보시고 담임 선생님... 더 보기
그래도 반장을 하고 있는 걸로 봐서 비교적 친구관계가 원만한 것 같습니다. 전교 부회장인 아이가 어떤 식으로 행동하는지 에피소드가 없어 판단하기가 좀 힘겹고요.
글만 본다면 소위 학군지에서 비학군지로 이전하게 되는 것 같은데 아이가 더 적응하기 어려울 수 있습니다(저는 비학군지 -> 특목고 진학했을 때 제일 좋았던 점이 공부를 해도 별말 안듣는다는 것이었고 다들 공부 열심히 하는 것이었어요. 학교생활 숨통이 트였어요).
아이와 좀 더 면밀하게 말을 나누시면서 학폭 수준인지 여부를 판단해보시고 담임 선생님... 더 보기
아...어렵네요.
그래도 반장을 하고 있는 걸로 봐서 비교적 친구관계가 원만한 것 같습니다. 전교 부회장인 아이가 어떤 식으로 행동하는지 에피소드가 없어 판단하기가 좀 힘겹고요.
글만 본다면 소위 학군지에서 비학군지로 이전하게 되는 것 같은데 아이가 더 적응하기 어려울 수 있습니다(저는 비학군지 -> 특목고 진학했을 때 제일 좋았던 점이 공부를 해도 별말 안듣는다는 것이었고 다들 공부 열심히 하는 것이었어요. 학교생활 숨통이 트였어요).
아이와 좀 더 면밀하게 말을 나누시면서 학폭 수준인지 여부를 판단해보시고 담임 선생님과도 부모님께서 적극 나서보시는 게 더 낫지 않을까 싶기도 하고요.
아이는 어떤 의견인가요? 전학가고 싶고 학교가는 거 자체가 너무 괴롭다는 의견일까요? 그렇다면 아이의견에 맞게 전학가는 것도 크게 고려해보시는 게 좋을 거 같고요. 그런 정도는 아니지만 부회장 친구의 괴롭힘 때문에 힘들다면 그걸 해소하는 방안으로 가는 것이 좋을 것 같습니다. 아이와 이야기를 많이 나눠보시고 여러가지 선택지(담임 통해 해당학생 학부모와 이야길 나눈다, 학교에 정식으로 이의를 제기한다 등등..)를 같이 고민해보는 건 어떨런지요. ㅠㅠ
모쪼록 좋은 결론 이르시길 바랍니다.
그래도 반장을 하고 있는 걸로 봐서 비교적 친구관계가 원만한 것 같습니다. 전교 부회장인 아이가 어떤 식으로 행동하는지 에피소드가 없어 판단하기가 좀 힘겹고요.
글만 본다면 소위 학군지에서 비학군지로 이전하게 되는 것 같은데 아이가 더 적응하기 어려울 수 있습니다(저는 비학군지 -> 특목고 진학했을 때 제일 좋았던 점이 공부를 해도 별말 안듣는다는 것이었고 다들 공부 열심히 하는 것이었어요. 학교생활 숨통이 트였어요).
아이와 좀 더 면밀하게 말을 나누시면서 학폭 수준인지 여부를 판단해보시고 담임 선생님과도 부모님께서 적극 나서보시는 게 더 낫지 않을까 싶기도 하고요.
아이는 어떤 의견인가요? 전학가고 싶고 학교가는 거 자체가 너무 괴롭다는 의견일까요? 그렇다면 아이의견에 맞게 전학가는 것도 크게 고려해보시는 게 좋을 거 같고요. 그런 정도는 아니지만 부회장 친구의 괴롭힘 때문에 힘들다면 그걸 해소하는 방안으로 가는 것이 좋을 것 같습니다. 아이와 이야기를 많이 나눠보시고 여러가지 선택지(담임 통해 해당학생 학부모와 이야길 나눈다, 학교에 정식으로 이의를 제기한다 등등..)를 같이 고민해보는 건 어떨런지요. ㅠㅠ
모쪼록 좋은 결론 이르시길 바랍니다.
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