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홍차넷
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질문
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- 질문 게시판입니다.
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전체기타게임진로연애가정/육아체육/스포츠교육의료/건강철학/종교IT/컴퓨터여행과학문화/예술법률홍차넷경제
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| Name | [익명] |
| Subject | 비혼주의 남자분들 여자 어디서 만나나요? |
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가짜(선택적) 비혼주의자이긴 하지만 현 제도의 결혼은 저에게 득될것이 없다 판단해서 결혼에 대해서 부정적인 사람입니다 냉정하게 말해보자면 아이도 원치 않고 (에너지를 과하게 투자하지 않고 양육하려고 한다면 상대가 원한다면 한명정도 가질수도 있으나 그러기가 쉽지 않을거라 생각합니다) 함께 부양하거나 신경쓰거나 돌봐드려야할 노부모님도 저에게는 없기때문에 (결혼한다면 쌍방부모님 모두 함께 챙겨야죠) 결혼을 원치 않습니다. 그에 반해 저의 의무는 너무 크고요. 뭐 저의 생각에 동의하고 저의 의무도 면책해주면서 저희 집에 들어와 살면서 둘만의지하며 한평생 살아보자면 혼인신고 못할 이유까지는 없는데 그런 여자는 드물기때문에 현재 비혼주의자라는것이고, 그래서 제가 가짜 비혼주의자라는겁니다. 30초까지는 20초 여자분들을 만나서 이십대 중반쯤 결혼에 대해 압박이 들어오면 놓아주면서 연애했습니다. 주로 맘에드는분 번호받아서 만났고요. 나이가 더 들어가니깐 나이차가 더 많아지니 예전보다 쉽지도 않고 저도 나이먹어서 점점 여자 번호받고 메이드하는게 피곤하고 못할 일이라 생각이 드네요 그래서 소개로 편하게 만나보자는 생각으로 비혼주의자도 만나봤고 돌싱녀도 만나봤는데 비혼주의자인분들은 저처럼 가짜 비혼주의자인분들이 많아서 원하는 남자와 원하는 결혼생활을 못해서 비혼인거더라고요. 남자가 생기니 본인이 원하는 결혼을 요구하게되고 그 결혼은 전형적인 결혼이지 제가 원하는 바와는 달랐습니다. 돌싱이라고 결혼 안하려고 하지도 않았고요. 오히려 빨리 좋은 결혼으로 과거 결혼을 덮으려고 더 급해보임. 그래서 소개는 또 아니다 싶어서 최근에는 소프트한 유흥업소쪽에서 (성매매 이런거 말고 옆에서 술만 따르는 쪽이요) 여자 만나서 한 육개월쯤 만나고 여자집에서 삼개월쯤은 반동거도 했었습니다만 이분은 결혼압박은 없는데 일은 일로 이해하는데도 맨날 술을 먹고 취해있는 밤낮이 반대인 사람과 지내는게 또 고통스럽더라고요. 수면방해가 너무 심각해서 저는 저의 집으로 다시 복귀했는데 술을 먹으면 저를 부르거나 자는 저를 깨워서 제가 데릴러가야하거나 하는 등의 케어를 해야 하는게 너무 고통스러워서 정리할수밖에없었습니다. 원래 반동거하게된 이유도 술먹고 퇴근한 애를 케어해야될 일이 넘 많아서 맨날 가다보니 제 물건을 거기에 쌓게된거라.. 아무튼 그래서 정리하고 친구처럼 지내기로 했습니다. 그냥 이제 연애는 못하는걸까 싶기도 하고 그러네요 결혼하고 싶지 않은 사람이 결혼하고 싶어하는 사람과 연애하는걸 상대에게 잘못을 저지르는것 마냥 죄악시하는 풍토도 원망스럽고 뭐 그렇습니다 지금도 비혼주의자 아닌 여자 만나서 결혼요청 강하게 할때까지 만나는 식의 연애는 못할거까진 아닐거같은데 저를 원망하는 사람을 더 만들고 싶지 않아서 그러고 싶지 않네요. 친구에게 상담했더니 농반진반으로 유부녀는 결혼하자고 안해 라고 하던데 다만 그 이야기 듣고 아 그래서 유부녀 만나는 사람들이 있는거구나 라며 그 사람들을 조금은 이해되었긴한데 저까지 그러고 싶진않습니다. 그럴바에는 차라리 결혼생각 있는여자 만나서 결혼 생각없이 연애하는 나쁜놈 되는게 낫죠. 저 이제 연애 못하는걸까요? 푸념반 질문반인데 어디서 만나는지 좋은곳 있으면 알려주세요. 읽어주신분 답변해주시는분 모두 감사드립니다. Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 133 Warning: Use of undefined constant no - assumed 'no' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 146 Warning: Use of undefined constant vote - assumed 'vote' (this will throw an Error in a future version of PHP) in /home/redtea/html/a_skin/bbsd/view.php on line 161 0 |
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조건이 제한적이다보니 POOL이 좁아질 수 밖에 없는 것 같네요.
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